Bad moods

Why does it seem like everytime someone is in a bad mood, you just happen to be in the line of fire?? Why can't people learn how to control their emotions and not take their anger out on other people?? Especially people that did not have anything to do with the issue at hand?? Take your anger out on the person or thing that upset you and stop trying to ruin other folks's day. Better yet, take it to the Lord in prayer and let Him handle it. When you allow people to upset you or change your mood, you are essentially giving them charge over you. Do you not know that change starts in the mind and when people get into your mind, they control you. "Do you like me? Yes or No?" I need to know so that I can adapt how I am supposed to feel about you. Just craziness. Get it together people!